Ways to Hookup with Girls Online
Here’s the question that is most asked by guys who want to hookup through online dating: How do guys respond to a woman who has replied to his ad, so he can virtually be guaranteed a date?
In many ways, your response should not be different from your personal ad. In other words, you should apply the 3-Us (Uniqueness, Ultra-Specificity, and Urgency) as part of your reply.
Moreover, there are four techniques that you should employ when replying to a woman who has answered your personal ad.
1. The K.I.S.S. Principle (Keep It Short, Stupid)
Don’t tell everything there is to say about you on your initial email message to her. If you tell all right away, she won’t have any reason to want to know you more.
One of the things that can really turn a woman off is a blabbermouth. So if you keep your email messages short, you maintain an aura of mystery that will keep her interested and want to know more about you.
If she asks questions, answer them, and then ask her questions in return. Make her feel that you’re also interested, so it helps keep the conversation going.
2. Be Humorous and Conversational
This doesn’t mean you start telling her jokes, but rather use wit and humor to keep the conversation highly entertaining. And more importantly, keep the dialogue conversational. This can’t be stressed enough.
Avoid writing in a formal manner, it might make you seem uptight and boring. Try writing in a casual and easy way instead, like:
“Hey Tiffany, I’m on a quick break, so I just thought I’d say hi. I can’t wait to get out of here. I’m hitting this popular watering hole with friends after work for a little, uhm, social lubrication. What do you have planned after work?”
3. Give Compliments Sparingly
One of the things that women hate, or will eventually hate, is a guy who can be a little overbearing in giving compliments. What you can do instead is be selective by implication. For example, you can start with a greeting like: “How are you doing today, doll face?”
4. Don’t Be In a Rush to Meet Her
If a woman responds to your personal ad, saying she wants to meet you as soon as possible, you can reply back with:
“Sure, I would love to go out and meet you. But my weekend is completely booked right now, but by the middle of the week, I should be free. How about you pick the place, so you can be comfortable? And I’ll pick the drinks. Are you cool with that?”
This kind of reply will make her think you’re a busy man, and maybe have other dates lined up. And if she thinks other women fancy you, she’ll be interested even more.
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